Financial matters during courtship, love between cousins, and the best age for marriage.

> 46. Can gifts given to a partner during a relationship be returned after the relationship ends?

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During courtship, giving gifts to one's partner to express affection is considered a form of courtship.

It's only natural for people to feel this way. However, in the process of dating, some relationships fail to establish a proper foundation for love due to various reasons.

In romantic relationships, it's common for one party to propose ending the relationship.

Neither party can force the other to continue the romantic relationship.

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So, what should be done with gifts exchanged during a romantic relationship? It depends on the circumstances.

> Treatment. For example, clothing given by one party to the other, or clothing exchanged between the two parties.

Generally, some items should not be reclaimed after a relationship ends. However, if one party is convinced that they can get their money back, they should.

The wedding cost a considerable amount of money, even putting themselves into debt to buy clothes, home appliances, etc. for their partner.

High-end items; once a relationship ends, both parties should cooperate with mutual understanding.

The solution can be negotiated, with a partial return or a discounted return. For example, during a romantic relationship, both parties...

The wages earned by each party were mixed together, without distinction, and used to purchase some clothing and work items.

Utensils should be considered joint property once the relationship ends, taking into account factors such as how much money was spent and how they are used for daily living.

The actual needs of the economy should be realistically and reasonably divided. For example, if the economy has not been mixed, one...

In preparation for the wedding, Fang gradually purchased various household items needed after marriage.

If something is left with the other person, it should generally be returned once the relationship ends.

If some personal items have already been used by the other party, the used items can be returned at a discounted price.

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Regarding the handling of finances during a romantic relationship, both parties should act with mutual respect and understanding.

The principle is to resolve issues through negotiation. If negotiation fails, both parties' employers or the local mediation committee may be asked to assist in resolving the issue.

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> 47. What should I do if I've fallen in love with my cousin?

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In my country, there is a long-standing custom of cousins ​​marrying, and many cousins ​​are childhood sweethearts.

It's not surprising that two childhood sweethearts fell in love. However, in our country...

The Marriage Law explicitly prohibits marriage between "lineal relatives and collateral relatives within three generations".

Marriage between first cousins ​​is prohibited. This is because it is between close relatives.

Marriage can transmit various genetic diseases to offspring, posing a significant threat. There are approximately [number missing] such diseases worldwide.

> 15% of people have genetic diseases, most of which occur in families where consanguineous marriages take place.

The incidence of congenital and hereditary diseases is higher in offspring of consanguineous marriages than in children born of close relatives.

Offspring of non-consanguineous marriages are 150 times more likely to have congenital malformations. Furthermore, close relatives...

The mortality rate for infants born from consanguineous marriages is approximately 80%, while the mortality rate for infants born from non-consanguineous marriages is...

The mortality rate is approximately 20%. Common birth defects in offspring of consanguineous marriages include cleft lip.

> Dwarfism, dementia, deafness, polydactyly, etc.

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The current national policy advocates that each couple should have only one child, and eugenics has become a priority.

> An important issue. If we still cling to the old idea of ​​"marrying within family ties," then...

This would lead to self-inflicted harm, harming future generations, and is also prohibited by marriage law. Therefore, it has already...

Friends who fall in love with their cousins ​​must trust science and use reason to overcome emotion.

Extinguish this unwanted flame of love in your heart, and nurture a new, healthy flower of love.

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> 48. How to Choose the Best Age for Marriage

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According to my country's Marriage Law, men must be at least 22 years old to marry and women must be at least 22 years old.

> If a man must be at least 20 years old to marry, is this the ideal age for marriage? From a medical perspective...

From a general perspective, men at age 22 and women at age 20, although their sexual function has basically developed...

The body is physically mature, but its organs are not yet fully developed and require further development.

It should be about 3 years later. Therefore, marrying too early is detrimental to the physical development of both men and women.

This will also have a negative impact on future generations. Furthermore, from a psychological perspective, at age 20...

Young people around 20 years old, especially young women, are in the process of developing their will, character, and emotions.

> During the development and growth period, one's energy reaches its peak, making it the golden age for building a career, and

Their thinking is not yet mature, and their social experience is not rich enough, resulting in a limited understanding of marriage and family.

The understanding isn't deep enough, so it's not advisable to get married at this age. Once you get married around 20...

After marriage, one must take charge of the household, participating in work while also managing family chores.

We must care for the elderly, raise our children, and fulfill our responsibilities to society, family, and children.

Responsibility brings both heavy burdens in life and mental stress.

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The legal marriage age we refer to is the earliest age for marriage stipulated by law.

> Age, and the best age for marriage should be a few years later, but not too late.

Generally, the ideal age range for men is 25-27, and for women it is 23-25.

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> 49. **What preparations should be made as the wedding date approaches?**

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Marriage is an important step on life's journey, often referred to as a "lifelong milestone."

> Matters. As the wedding date approaches, the following preparations should be made by both parties:

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(1) Legal preparation: According to my country's Marriage Law, a marriage certificate must be obtained before marriage.

Only marriages that have undergone marriage registration are legally recognized.

> Protection. Choose a sunny or memorable day to go to the wedding with your lover.

Go to the registration office to register and receive your marriage certificate. This day will be the most meaningful and...

> A happy day that will be recorded in the annals of life.

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(2) Mental preparation: It is necessary to establish correct views on marriage and family, and to recognize that...

While two people may share common interests and goals, they also differ in personality, hobbies, habits, and other aspects.

> Differences in appearance. In future married life, mutual understanding and adaptation are essential.

They loved each other as much as ever. At the same time, they also had to consider various aspects of family relationships and be filial.

Respect and support the elderly on both sides of the family, and live in harmony with the extended family.

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(3) Material preparation: First, it is necessary to purchase essential daily necessities, and this should be done diligently.

The principles of frugality, practicality, aesthetics, and rationality should be upheld; one should not exceed one's means in order to show off.

First, the couple must have the financial means to pay for their marriage; second, they must have sufficient funds to cover their daily expenses after marriage.

If you don't have the ability, don't get married yet. Whether it's buying household items or planning for after marriage...

Whether it's economic life or other matters, both parties need to consult and make reasonable arrangements together.

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(4) Knowledge preparation: such as legal common sense including marriage, ethics, psychology

Knowledge of science and moral cultivation, physiological and hygiene knowledge regarding marital sexual life, and calculation.

Knowledge of family planning and childcare, as well as household chores such as cooking and sewing.

You can ask others for advice or learn from them, and you should also prepare some relevant books.

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(5) Physical Examination: Both men and women should undergo a premarital examination at a hospital to ensure that...

This allows for the timely detection of physiological or pathological problems, enabling them to be corrected or treated before marriage.

Treatment may be necessary, and marriage should be postponed if required, to avoid discovering any physical or physiological issues in the other person only after marriage.

These symptoms can lead to dissatisfaction in family life.